As a gay man, I have always dreaded sports. I have never been good at it, and look ridiculous doing it. My body just does not have the natural coordination for it.
My company, CardSmart, holds an Annual General Meeting each year. Last year’s was held in the snow at Falls Creek in Victoria. I had only skied once before, and the result was not pretty. Therefore, I had no interest in repeating it. I joined the kids instead at the toboggan slopes, and had loads of fun.

This year, the AGM was held at the Hyatt Coolum in the Sunshine Coast. While some people chose to play golf, I chose to have a facial and a massage at the spa. It was heaven.
They also scheduled a tennis tournament as a group activity. I did not join up. I was not interested in embarassing myself in front of my co-workers. Fate was not on my side though. One poor kid could not play, because she did not have a partner. Needless to say, I was pressured into playing. They got to me using guilt. As the evidence shows, it was a scary sight.